Why Strong Gay Men After 40 Need More Nurturing And Self-Love To Overcome Gay Dating And Relationship Anxieties, Fears And Rejections

Gay dating for men over 40 can create disappointments and frustrations even for the strongest and smartest of men. Strong gay men over 40 can benefit more from self-nurturing than younger gay men because of the nature of masculinity which with age can create rigidity, crustiness and stubbornness as protection against rejections, anxieties and disappointments.

Nurturing for the smart and strong gay men is more important than acquiring knowledge and achieving goals because nurturing creates the happy and nonjudgmental attitude towards life and other gay men. The gay men who receive very little nurturing from parents and themselves, often end up bitter, judgmental and develop fears of intimacy with others.

This video and article will help you see if you have received enough nurturing in your life and how you can create more of it today and open your heart and mind to more dating and more love.

Myth of gay sexual compatibility in gay dating and relationships.

Sexual compatibility can take away opportunities to make new friends and develop long term relationships. In a world of top and bottom we never get the full package. “Perfect sex” usually comes at the cost of personality mismatch. A new perspective is helpful to make better choices for lovers and friends.

I believe that looking for sexual compatibility has nothing to do with sexual compatibility but it has everything to do with the desire to feel comfortable, validated and accepted. I think that the reason why gay men are looking for sexual compatibility is because they are looking to reduce uncertainty, abandonment and rejection when meeting others. Because sexual connection is the easiest to experience, given the time and effort involved, it kidnaps the process of connecting and gives an illusion of a connection.

Be courageous, take risks and let go of your rigid expectations in gay dating and gay relationships.

This Valentine’s Day 2016 lets remind ourselves about the three foundations for love: taking more risks with people, being more courageous with your dating and reducing your expectations. That formula always works because this is the Mother Nature formula for love that never fails.

If you are struggling in gay dating it is probably because you forgot about this universal principle that makes love go around. So – get to it – start taking more courage, allow risk and reduce your expectations and your heart will become alive. again and you will feel the rush of new love in your life.

Gay Life Coaching: Achievement And State Of Flow For Gay Men Over 40

Gay men have more difficulty achieving the state of flow. In this video and article I will share with you how to enter the state of flow and how to stay there for as long as possible. State of flow is a state where your worries go away, where all the uncertainty, ambiguity and fear go away and you get into action towards the goals and plans you have decided to achieve. And the feeling you get from the consistent execution of your ideas is what I call the “state of flow”.

Gay Life Coaching: 5 Secret Tips For Lifelong Gay Friendships

In this video I am going to share with you the 5 most important elements of gay friendships. Why is it important? Gay friendships are more challenging than others because the sexual hunger that is not satisfied with partners and lovers is transferred into friendships. Gay shame is also a factor in the difficulties amongst gay men in developing long term friends. The five secret tips that I am going to share with you will help you create long term gay friendships.