Balance your sexual energies so that you don’t judge other gay men by their “package”. As an exercise, imagine that when you meet another gay man, his genitals are gone and notice how you feel. If you feel ackward, it probably means that you are putting too much empasis on the genitalia instead of focusing on his character, personality and energy.
Should you choose yourself or your lover? Is self-love more important than romantic love towards another? This video explains the difference and one of the most important lesson every gay man will have to learn in his life. While romantic love feels 100 times stronger, we should not sell out ourselves because the price to pay is way too high.
The biggest challenge in any gay man’s life after 40 will be moving on from past relationships and creating a clean slate for new ones. Many clients I work with, who are looking to create new relationships, are still holding on to their ex-boyfriends even after many years have passed. In this article I will help you understand why breaking up is difficult and I will help you become aware of automatic patterns from childhood that make some relationships very difficult to let go of.
In this video you will learn about how to bring more passion and excitement to your dating. You see – when you have fun during dating, the relationships that come out of that are also fun, exciting and adventurous. Every gay man can have a great time during dating when he includes his hobbies and interests during dating. So go, make a list of your hobbies and interests and invite your date to those activities and don’t forget to watch this video for more ideas.
Sexual compatibility can take away opportunities to make new friends and develop long term relationships. In a world of top and bottom we never get the full package. “Perfect sex” usually comes at the cost of personality mismatch. A new perspective is helpful to make better choices for lovers and friends.
I believe that looking for sexual compatibility has nothing to do with sexual compatibility but it has everything to do with the desire to feel comfortable, validated and accepted. I think that the reason why gay men are looking for sexual compatibility is because they are looking to reduce uncertainty, abandonment and rejection when meeting others. Because sexual connection is the easiest to experience, given the time and effort involved, it kidnaps the process of connecting and gives an illusion of a connection.
You can use conflict to release a lot of negative energy that is stored inside you. Research shows that a lot of negative energy is stored in our cells, tissues – your face and the body. We need to have a way to release the negativity into the open. Conflict can provide the vehicle for expression of suppressed and repressed emotional content.
Life wisdom for gay men that brings serenity, peace and self-love. At times of frustrations, difficulties and anxieties – read this article and discover how to bring peace of mind to your life.