Most gay men live their whole lives jumping from one trap to another, especially with sex and choices of partners. Only those who have therapists and coaches can snap out of this trap. Watch this video to learn about this trap and about the biggest obstacle to personal growth and transformation for men.
Welcome to Social Contracts – the fastest way to fall in love. Social Contracts are containers for intimacy, healing, and personal transformation. When you use Social Contracts, you connect faster, deeper, and you build lots and lots of trust together.
Narcissism is not about just selfishness. It is about a developmental injury that makes empathy and love impossible. Learning about narcissism and trauma-bonding will make a big impact on your understanding of sex, emotions, and relationships.
The conversation about anal sex is a conversation about honesty, more than physiology and logic. Are gay men really so detached from their bodies not to feel the pain from anal intercourse? Are they so much in self-abandonment that they perceive pain as pleasure? Enjoy another discussion about anal sex.
Signs of demoralization in the gay world are everywhere. The absence of proper conduct when meeting, communicating, and having sex creates a cycle of trauma and wounding. Protecting yourself from this demoralization should be your number one priority at this time so that when you meet your lover you are not acting out your hurt and instead you call in love with him.
In this podcast, you will understand why it is so difficult to choose love over sex. You will understand the connection between emotional & sexual deprivation and the choices for lovers and you will understand why many gay men are so irrational about sex.
Learn how to become a Gay Social Engineer and create a plan for success in your relationships. This plan focuses on meeting gay men in a structured way. You will learn about how to co-create this structure and how to co-own it.