Bisexuality is not a sexual orientation. Virtually all bisexual men have a split attraction. Emotions go to women, sex goes to men. Such split of attraction creates dishonesty and betrayals for anyone who is involved in with a bisexual person. Their attraction has been cut in half to fit into a shamed and fragmented context of relatedness, which has been programmed by their parents, friends, experiences and lack of healthy interactions with gay men.