Amazing interview with Arnie Vargas who is a counselor and workshop facilitator for gay men. How do you choose who is good for you and why? How do you deal with top-bottom incompatibility? Why do some gay men project their own insecurities of “I am not good enough” into “he is not good enough for me”.
Gay men have more difficulty achieving the state of flow. In this video and article I will share with you how to enter the state of flow and how to stay there for as long as possible. State of flow is a state where your worries go away, where all the uncertainty, ambiguity and fear go away and you get into action towards the goals and plans you have decided to achieve. And the feeling you get from the consistent execution of your ideas is what I call the “state of flow”.
With the new ruling of the Supreme Court, gay marriage is officially legal all across the country! This day has been awaited for so long that it marks a new day in history of modern world as the day that equality and freedom prevailed. This video and article discusses ideas about what this means to gay men looking into the future.
Gay men go through three cycles of the coming out process as described in the book “The Velvet Rage”. Those cycles are crucial to understand for any gay man who is looking to create a successful romantic relationship and who wants a social life that includes trust, loyalty and respect. The video you are about to see describes the personal story of Robert – Paul’s client who has gone through all 3 stages and now shares his experiences.
Gay social empire will make every gay man happy. If you live in an environment where being gay can be open, authentic and transparent – creating a social empire – a social experience where you meet a lot of people and consistently stay in contact with them is easier than you think. The biggest obstacle to creating your gay social empire is the feeling of separation and the feeling of judgment you have towards other gay men.
The most wonderful aspect of gay life lies ahead. Gay Renaissance is the reawakening of the gay spirit after years of battles legalizing gay marriage and laying out the legal infrastructure for cultural revolution for gay men.