Our major needs for love, companionship and significance can be met through a group of authentic friendships. Someone with 3-5 friends will be more patient, calm, and rational when meeting people, dating and creating a relationship. He will be more successful in finding love and happiness because he does not put all his eggs in one basket. By expecting that one person will satisfy all his needs, he is ultimately sentencing himself to lifelong suffering.
The most wonderful aspect of gay life lies ahead. Gay Renaissance is the reawakening of the gay spirit after years of battles legalizing gay marriage and laying out the legal infrastructure for cultural revolution for gay men.