Did you know that most of your relationships will be with gay men who are toxic for you? This article explains why our initial choices are far from the Perfect Match you are looking for ;)
Our major needs for love, companionship and significance can be met through a group of authentic friendships. Someone with 3-5 friends will be more patient, calm, and rational when meeting people, dating and creating a relationship. He will be more successful in finding love and happiness because he does not put all his eggs in one basket. By expecting that one person will satisfy all his needs, he is ultimately sentencing himself to lifelong suffering.