Make sex and attraction work for you: Avoid the destructive nature of gay sexuality and attraction. Don’t waste time with men who bring no value to your life except for good sex and looking pretty. Discover the adaptive nature of attraction and sexuality.
Compatibility is a match between two men based on personality type, emotional energies, values and psychological development. When the match is strong, gay men can experience a long-term relationships.
Bisexuality is not a sexual orientation. Virtually all bisexual men have a split attraction. Emotions go to women, sex goes to men. Such split of attraction creates dishonesty and betrayals for anyone who is involved in with a bisexual person. Their attraction has been cut in half to fit into a shamed and fragmented context of relatedness, which has been programmed by their parents, friends, experiences and lack of healthy interactions with gay men.
Amazing interview with Arnie Vargas who is a counselor and workshop facilitator for gay men. How do you choose who is good for you and why? How do you deal with top-bottom incompatibility? Why do some gay men project their own insecurities of “I am not good enough” into “he is not good enough for me”.
Astrological compatibility chart will help you pick a more compatible partner. For millennium, astrologers have devoted lifetimes to correlating planetary positions to events on Earth, and dispensed advice on every type of development, from farmers eager to learn the fortune of their crop, to rulers desperate to know if the time is right to invade a neighbor.