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I struggle so many times in my life. I continually face difficulties and challenges. Acceptance is my favorite tool in regaining control, spiritual balance and then learning lessons from whatever it is that I am struggling with.
Through the practice of acceptance, my struggles become like walking against the wind – the wind blows at me – I don’t ask the wind to stop – I accept it. When you do this more often, the resistance in your life can actually become fun. As you are dating people – there will be a “wind effect”, some friction, some resistance – and through acceptance you can allow that to be – just accept it without trying to change it.
Gay men have more difficulty achieving the state of flow. In this video and article I will share with you how to enter the state of flow and how to stay there for as long as possible. State of flow is a state where your worries go away, where all the uncertainty, ambiguity and fear go away and you get into action towards the goals and plans you have decided to achieve. And the feeling you get from the consistent execution of your ideas is what I call the “state of flow”.
Did you know that social media and technology is continually separating us from each other? And did you know that soon you will forget how to have a healthy friendship, let alone a healthy romantic relationship?
In this video I am going to share with you the 5 most important elements of gay friendships. Why is it important? Gay friendships are more challenging than others because the sexual hunger that is not satisfied with partners and lovers is transferred into friendships. Gay shame is also a factor in the difficulties amongst gay men in developing long term friends. The five secret tips that I am going to share with you will help you create long term gay friendships.
Our major needs for love, companionship and significance can be met through a group of authentic friendships. Someone with 3-5 friends will be more patient, calm, and rational when meeting people, dating and creating a relationship. He will be more successful in finding love and happiness because he does not put all his eggs in one basket. By expecting that one person will satisfy all his needs, he is ultimately sentencing himself to lifelong suffering.
If you are a gay man over 40, three psychological areas will either break you or make you! Shame, Partner Selection and Social Engagement. If you succeed at those three, the rest should fall into place automatically. Read below and watch the video to find out more.