The impact of the bisexual men and closeted men on gay people is real and important to discuss. When gay marriage became legal, everyone thought that love and relationships will improve. In reality, just the opposite has happened due to increased use of Craigslist, Grindr and online dating. Why are gay men regressing in the love and relationship area? This video explains part of the challenges gay men face.
Bisexuality is not a sexual orientation. Virtually all bisexual men have a split attraction. Emotions go to women, sex goes to men. Such split of attraction creates dishonesty and betrayals for anyone who is involved in with a bisexual person. Their attraction has been cut in half to fit into a shamed and fragmented context of relatedness, which has been programmed by their parents, friends, experiences and lack of healthy interactions with gay men.