Choosing to challenge your ‘little voices’ and change your negative thinking will have an impact on every aspect of your life.
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Have you ever given up on a dream because you’ve listened to that ‘little voice’ in your head that tells you that you ‘can’t have it or do it’ or ‘he is too good-looking’? That inner voice is the critic inside of you that causes many opportunities to come to a screaming halt and many relationships to end abruptly.
There are times when listening to your ‘gut’ comes in handy, but for the most part, what is perceived as a gut reaction is simply fear of failure or rejection before the event even takes place. How can you silence your inner critic so that you can move on and build the business that you dream of or find the love of your life?
Paul Angelo recommends three steps:
First, listen to your inner voice and make a list of what you hear, elaborating on how you feel about each. You may pull out a journal and write your feelings, thoughts and assumptions.
Choose a response to what your critic tells you, and make a choice to ignore the negative.
Reaffirm your best qualities daily.
When you do the above, you will ‘reprogram’ yourself to take your critic’s suggestions as positive messages rather than constant negatives.
Also, consider the law of Attraction. Whether you’re a religious person or not, the basics are simple, you attract what you think. This theory too is another direction to follow for achieving your dreams and not allowing negativity to lead your life. Choosing to challenge your ‘little voices’ and change your negative thinking will have an impact on every aspect of your life, creating positive habits that even your worst inner critic can’t bring down.