Ready For Marriage/Love Or Still Experimenting?

We spend half of our life figuring out who we are and what we want. Being ready for a relationship is the end result of that process. Not knowing who we are and what we want creates confusion during dating and inability to follow through. In addition, being driven by sex and status also delays the process of clarity and authenticity about our needs.  We are distracted by the superficial sexual impulses and the status seeking to give us a sensation of significance. 

How Absence Of Women Affects Gay Men In Relationship Pursuits

Absence of women in romantic gay relationships makes it difficult for gay men to understand how relationships work. In heterosexual relationships, it is not the men who create relationships, but the women. And because gay men copy mostly after heterosexual men, who rarely know how to make relationships work, gay men do not inherit the behaviors that make relationships possible. This is the the reason why most gay men struggle in relationships for many years.