3 Skills Every Gay Man Must Master For Mental Stability, Relationship Success And Healthy Sexuality

Every gay man will face negativity, rejection and complications with dating and relationships. How you handle those situations will depend on your competence in the following three areas: emotional processing, sexual intelligence and self-love. This video gives you simple steps for how to process yourself emotionally, how to develop sexual intelligence and how to increase self-love.

Gay Coaching: Powerful Exercise For Sexual Health

Balance your sexual energies so that you don’t judge other gay men by their “package”. As an exercise, imagine that when you meet another gay man, his genitals are gone and notice how you feel. If you feel ackward, it probably means that you are putting too much empasis on the genitalia instead of focusing on his character, personality and energy.

Myth of gay sexual compatibility in gay dating and relationships.

Sexual compatibility can take away opportunities to make new friends and develop long term relationships. In a world of top and bottom we never get the full package. “Perfect sex” usually comes at the cost of personality mismatch. A new perspective is helpful to make better choices for lovers and friends.

I believe that looking for sexual compatibility has nothing to do with sexual compatibility but it has everything to do with the desire to feel comfortable, validated and accepted. I think that the reason why gay men are looking for sexual compatibility is because they are looking to reduce uncertainty, abandonment and rejection when meeting others. Because sexual connection is the easiest to experience, given the time and effort involved, it kidnaps the process of connecting and gives an illusion of a connection.

Be authentic with yourself and others during this Holiday Season.

Holidays are a great opportunity to reconnect authentically with your family and friends. If something bothers you, do not pretend that everything is okay. Be open and authentic when you talk to others, otherwise you are setting a bad precedent for yourself by teaching yourself to hold hurt and pain inside instead of sharing it with the people who are supposed to be your loved ones.

As a gay man, are you emotionally literate?

Emotional intelligence is not merely about controlling emotional responses for one’s own benefit and that of others. Emotional intelligence (EI) refers to the ability to perceive, control and evaluate emotions. Some researchers suggest that emotional intelligence can be learned and strengthened, while others claim it is an inborn characteristic.

Self Esteem – The Problem Behind All Sexual Deviations And Sex Addiction For Gay Men

Self esteem is THE major challenge for many gay men. It lies at the heart of many of the diverse issues and challenges we face in gay life. Gay men deal with this on a daily basis as a result of the gay community’s emphasis on trim, lean physique, physical perfection and sex. If you don’t fit into that mold then you feel bad, inadequate and lonely.