Gay Life Coaching: Is gay life more difficult?

Gay life is different from straight life in many ways. Gay men don’t have the same patterns of behavior, the same moral code, gay men don’t have a philosophy yet. If during the first 10 years after coming out your life is difficult – it is because it’s supposed to be difficult because you don’t know how it “all” works, nobody taught you how to “Be Gay”.

Is it GAY LOVE or Co-Dependency?

The second most common misconception about love is the idea that dependency is love. This is a misconception with which psychotherapists must deal on a daily basis. Its effect is seen most dramatically in an individual who makes an attempt or gesture or threat to commit suicide or who becomes incapacitatingly depressed in response to a rejection or separation from spouse or lover.

6 Steps to solve gay man’s addiction to blaming boyfriends and lovers for his own mistakes

Jim consulted with me because his boyfriend of 18 years had threatened to leave him if he didn’t stop blaming him all the time. He admitted to frequently blaming him in a variety of situations. He blamed him if he thought he made a mistake, if he thought he was wrong about something, if he was feeling alone, or even if he had a bad day at work.