Gay Coaching For Men Over 40: Matchmaking For Gay Men

Aug92017

Rebuilding Gay Society With Sufism, Stoicism And Objectivism

Every man has the power to attain all his goals, fall in love and be happy but to activate his potential he needs to enter the space of trust with other men. Sufism opens your heart. Stoicism helps you develop your character. Objectivism teaches you how to think. Any man who empowers himself with these teachings has the opportunity to enter the space of trust with other men and benefit from the cooperation and innovation that it produces.

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Jul172017

Gay Spirituality: How To Connect To Divine Intervention For Gay Men

Connecting to divine intervention helps you overcome the most difficult situations in relationships, health and career. Without spiritual intervention, most gay men feel lost and disconnected from inner wisdom, intuition and inner-direction. Creating divine intervention awakens powers and abilities not available with conventional methods of performance, success and achievement. This video shows you how to revive divine intervention in your life as a gay man.

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Jul82017

5 Stages Of Gay Life And How To Keep Friends And Lovers Forever

The number one challenge for gay men today is the complexity of issues that come from lack of alignment between chronological age and psychological age. These issues show up in inappropriate choices for partners, overemphasis on sex and rejections of others because of status.

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May152017

Bisexuality As Fragmented Attraction Instead Of Sexual Orientation

Bisexuality is not a sexual orientation. Virtually all bisexual men have a split attraction. Emotions go to women, sex goes to men. Such split of attraction creates dishonesty and betrayals for anyone who is involved in with a bisexual person. Their attraction has been cut in half to fit into a shamed and fragmented context of relatedness, which has been programmed by their parents, friends, experiences and lack of healthy interactions with gay men.

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May52017

Truth: How Most Gay Men Deep Inside Actually Don’t Want Relationships

Many gay men want relationships, so why are they still single? Today, we will talk about why wanting a relationship means nothing unless it is backed by consistent and intentional action steps. Dating and relationships are not exempt from effort and sweat. So next time you tell yourself “I want a relationship”, check with yourself whether your action steps are aligned with an authentic intent of seeking love and a consistent effort to meet and connect with other gay men.

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Apr282017

Gay Life Happens Inside Conflicts: The Importance Of Conflict, Arguments, Friction In Gay Relationships

In gay relationships, conflicts play a very important role. Through conflict, we actually get to know our lover, boyfriend better. Conflicts produce a deeper immersion into another person’s life and give an opportuity to see the side of another person’s personality that cannot be seen without prior conflict. Energetically, conflicts are a method of testing each other’s love and committment. Through conflict we develop deep trust and loyalty to one another. Without conflict, our relationships are shallow, meaningless and provide limited opportunity for intimacy.

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Apr262017

Deeper And Often Forgotten Benefits Of Gay Relationships

Gay relationships have deeper benefits that go beyond companionships and sex. Our neurosis, rigidity, stubborness, bitterness can get polished out of our personalities when we are overcoming relationship challenges and dealing well with conflicts inside a relationship. While most people exit at the first sign of conflict or friction, the ones who stay and practice acceptance and letting go can see massive improvements in their general well being.

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Apr212017

Gay Coaching: If You Reject Others You Reject Part Of You

Acceptance is a powerful spiritual practice. When we accept other gay men as they are, we are training ourselves to accept our own insecurities, mistakes and baggage. When we reject another person, we are actually training ourselves to reject the parts of us that we don’t like.

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What I learned from Paul's workshop is that it’s really important that you get outside of your comfort zone and meet other people. It’s important to be yourself and not to put up a front. You don’t need to tell everything about your life but at least be willing to open up to people and share something about yourself. I highly recommend you come join us.

Samuel

I found Paul very inspiring. He is an example that at whatever age, and from whatever country you are, you can succeed like he. That’s why I am in the coaching program with him. I learned how to motivate myself, how to challenge myself and to overcome every fear and every issue that I find in my life.

Luis

I was lost. I was not doing well socially, I wasn’t making friends I wasn’t meeting anyone very much. Luckily, I run into Paul one day. He was a big help. And now my life is a lot better because of it. I am much more social. I am getting along better in the gay world. I understand it now. Paul has been very helpful, and I am leading a much nicer life now.

Ken

Paul’s courses and coaching helped me fully understand my past relationship struggles. He also gave me tools to make relationship choices today that are right for me, and he gave me a sense of confidence about my ability to develop a healthy gay relationship in the future. You owe this kind of coaching to yourself and I urge you to have the courage to give it your full effort.

David