We spend half of our life figuring out who we are and what we want. Being ready for a relationship is the end result of that process. Not knowing who we are and what we want creates confusion during dating and inability to follow through. In addition, being driven by sex and status also delays the process of clarity and authenticity about our needs. We are distracted by the superficial sexual impulses and the status seeking to give us a sensation of significance.
Innovation into gay relationships will not come from heterosexual men or women and their services. The innovation can only come from within the community and with a thorough understanding of what the real problems are that prevent gay men from connecting with each other and creating lifelong relationships.
To live a normal life, every gay man must learn how to manage his anxieties. Implementing habits that create replenishment, rejuvenation and healing is as important as eating organic food or exercising at a gym. So, let me offer you a few simple ideas that I practice constantly to make myself whole and balanced.
When a man discovers how to express his emotions, his life changes instantly. Emotional awareness makes a man more powerful. The obstacles related to withholding emotions are no longer present and the man can move forward without being held back. Stuckness happens when a man cannot open up emotionally. But when emotional expression is restored – he is able to change and move forward with his plans.
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Absence of women in romantic gay relationships makes it difficult for gay men to understand how relationships work. In heterosexual relationships, it is not the men who create relationships, but the women. And because gay men copy mostly after heterosexual men, who rarely know how to make relationships work, gay men do not inherit the behaviors that make relationships possible. This is the the reason why most gay men struggle in relationships for many years.
Every gay man needs a role model to overcome his challenges in love, health and finances. Without role models we struggle for years with issues that can be easily resolved if you only had access to a strong and competent role model.