Since 2010, Paul has been teaching gay men strategies and mindsets about how to create healthy, long-term relationships and marriages.
To help gay men meet and connect faster, Paul started the Big Gay Family Social Program, which is a comprehensive solution for a professional gay man seeking friendships and relationships without the frustrations and rejections common to online dating and hookup websites.
By 2018, Paul has spent over 9,000 hours coaching and guiding his clients in the areas of gay dating and relationships. With over 600 publicly available videos about gay psychology, Paul is the world’s leader in the education of psychology of romantic relationships and gay sexuality.
Paul’s contribution to the world of gay psychology includes the development of a brand new gay philosophy called Gay Idealism and a brand-new framework for gay sexuality that simplifies dating, creates commitment and monogamy.