Happy New Year 2019

Best wishes to all gay men seeking love and success in 2019.   Before this year is over, let’s reflect on the biggest lessons learned in 2018.  Let’s integrate the victories, the attempts to grow and the results produced.  Let’s say goodbye to the past and welcome the future.  Let’s forgive all hurts and let go of the pain.  Let’s get clearer about the next year and enter into it with direction and focus.   Wishing you all the best,  Paul!

What is BAD SEX really? (gay)

Most information about gay sex is inadequate to guide men to create healthy relationships. This is why ideas that are counter-intuitive are usually the ones that make good sexual relationships possible. In this video, you will learn about the presence of “mental scripts” during sex that often lead to the presence of “bad sex” or to the awakening of authentic sexuality.

Understanding these ideas about gay sex will help you connect with more people and create better quality relationships.

I believe that this information is very helpful for all gay men who want stability in their relationships.

Stop Punishing Yourself By Being Single (Gay)

Get a deeper insight into what may be stopping you from creating relationships that work. For many gay men, being single is not just about not being able to find a compatible partner – it often is a self-inflicted punishment for “being bad” on the inside. In this video, you will get an insight into the mechanics of how the process of self-punishment works so that you can avoid self-sabotage and step into your new relationship without holding yourself back.

Like In Life, Good Melody Has Pain

I recorded this video back in 2016 when I was sick.  I was living in Miami at that time and purchased a guitar from craigslist.  The great thing about music is that it teaches you about the different melody types – minor chords are all about sadness and major chords are all about happiness.  When you combine those together the melody comes out beautiful.  Check out the melody I am playing and you will see for yourself.