In this amazing interview with Arnie Vargas, we talk about relationship issues for gay men over 40. Today we are speaking with Arnie Vargas, psychotherapist and relationship coach from Cape May, NJ and New York City. Arnie has worked for 22 years with individuals and couples helping them with individual and relationship issues. Arnie has
They call them “San Francisco relationships.” A term coined by the local gay community, it’s defined as two men in a long-term open relationship, with lovers on the side. A new study released this week by the Center for Research on Gender & Sexuality at San Francisco State University put statistics around what gay men
So you are drinking your Caffè latte and a hot guy sits next to you. You see the guy and you are interested but as opposed to staring at him and smiling, you spark a conversation with the guy on the left because you want to show to the hot guy that you are a sociable guy and that you have “options”.
For best results, you should delete the profile or at least deactivate it. This would let the other person know that you care and that you don’t need anyone else. Guys are not logical and even though you are not supposed to be monogamous, it is nice to hear from someone that “its just you and I for awhile”.
It is okay to ask someone about his financial situation but the downside to this approach is that you reveal your main focus. If the other person doesn’t like someone who is materialistic, you will never get to a second or third date. Also – most men who are financially compromised will end the relationship to protect the ego.
Do you remember the last time when you met someone really hot for a hookup but you really liked the person and wanted to go out on a date? There are techniques you can use to turn the hookup into a date. Don’t forget to read the disclaimer at the bottom of this p0st for
I bet you have always wandered about the best places to meet someone. You probably already know where to go to find a “hookup” and I will not spend time on that here. What we will talk about are places and situations that are the best predictors for dating and relationship success.