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Your Perfect Husband
Discover a faster way to meet your Perfect Husband (the ideal man) and settle down into a committed relationship.
9 Sessions + 14 Videos + Workbooks + Visualizations
Discover a faster way to meet your Perfect Husband (the ideal man) and settle down into a committed relationship. And - you don’t need to take 10-20 years of trial and error to find your Perfect Husband. You only need a few hours inside this training to discover who he is, where to meet him and how to connect with him.
Inside the training, you get exercises to clarify the traits of your Perfect Husband so that you focus exclusively on the men you want to meet instead of spending time with everyone and going nowhere. A few hours of training saves you years of frustrations!
You will learn about a powerful mental exercise that gives you an instant insight into the deepest and unconscious motivations of your lover so that you always know how to solve conflicts and bring the relationships back on track.
You will learn about how to adjust your dating strategy so that he is receptive and interested.
You will get examples for how to think strategically about dating so that you can meet Your Perfect Husband within a few months and create a solid foundation for the new relationship.
This training teaches you how to validate “your man” for his inner motivations and assumptions so that he feels understood and wants to be with you all the time.
Each video session teaches you new ways of thinking about meeting men so that you are no longer confused about how to date, how to connect and how to keep the relationship alive.
Ideas and frameworks inside this training come after 10,000+ hours of research into the area of gay dating and relationships. Many of the ideas from this training have been used and tested by Paul inside his relationship with Frank to turn a difficult relationship into a future marriage. After 8 years, these ideas continue to work for Paul & Frank and keep the relationship strong.
Instead of spending years researching on your own, you can instantly use the techniques and frameworks given to you inside the training and get immediate positive results within a few months.
Why is clarity important:
When you know in advance the fears and frustrations of your lover - you can ask more intelligent questions and be there for him on a deeper level.
Inside relationships, you are dealing with a complex human being who has his own “inner” motivations and assumptions. You want to discover them and use them during shared moments to create an experience of a magical, deep connection. This training teaches you how to do ALL that so that you can connect quickly and build a strong foundation.
Life is too short to “play things by ear” and hope that someone shows up and falls in love with you. This might have worked during your 20’s but later in life, you want to have clarity and strategy to make your relationships work. This training shows you how to do that!
When you have clarity about your relationship goals, you can ensure that during the PRIME YEARS of your life - in your 40’s and 50’s - you have the best relationships of your life. Most men continue experimenting into their 50’s and end up with confusing relationships that create difficult breakups.
40’s and 50’s, for gay men are the best moments of their lives and we don’t want to bring in too much experimentation and ambiguity into those moments.
Most gay men date inside a contextual vacuum. They date men without knowing the context that influences their thinking. Clarity quickly fixes that and brings depth to each interaction.
This course teaches you how to date with strategy and confidence so that you have the relationship you always wanted. So, go out there and make it happen!
Here is what you get inside the training:
► Clarity about the traits of your ideal lover.
► Visualizations to activate emotions and desire to meet men.
► Advanced techniques to create a long-term connection with your lover.
► New relationship narrative that replaces the old ways of connecting with men.
► Workbooks and exercises to remove doubt and fear about relationships.
► A list of 21 best places to meet gay men.
You will learn how to:
► How to meet attractive men without fear of rejection.
► How to discover the secret language of gay relationships.
► How to choose the best places to meet someone.
► How to avoid years of frustrations, breakups and disappointments.
► How to find and attract high quality men.
► How to speak HIS secret language so that you keep him forever.
► How to meet men who are ready to date.
► You will learn about the power of magical first impressions.
► How to stop dysfunctional dating habits that lead to breakups months later.
► How to be clear about the man you want to meet.
► How to feel confident about your abilities to attract a high quality man.
► How to stop the cycle of dating mistakes.
► How to put together a 3-month plan for active socializing.
► How to think like a relationship-guru and create the marriage you always wanted.
► How to think about sex so that you create a stable relationship.
Your Perfect Dating Sequence
Discover the secret habits and mindsets behind a dating strategy that produces instant connections and trusting relationships.
3 Video Sessions + Workbooks + Exercises
Discover the secret habits and mindsets behind a dating strategy that produces instant connections and trusting relationships. Those men who are skilled at dating, have a massive advantage in their approach to relationships than those who are impulsive. Knowing how to date is the biggest predictor for a successful relationship. It is the difference between connecting to your ideal lover or meeting men who are incapable of relationships. Dating is where the possibility of a relationship begins, so we need to take it seriously if we want to cultivate relationships that may turn into marriage and lifelong commitment.
The challenge is that many gay men are reactive and impulsive about dating. They are not prepared to deal with common situations that happen during dating. Instead of connecting, they react to impulses and end up missing out on amazing relationships.
Here is what you get inside the training:
► Techniques for creating chemistry during first dates.
► You get an example of a dating sequence that led to marriage.
► You learn how to call each other boyfriends after 4th date.
► How to date without anxieties, fear and doubt.
► You learn about the psychology behind first-impressions.
► How to avoid rejections and last-minute "change of hearts".
► How to come across confident and charismatic.
► How to get him to like you immediately.
► How to choose the right places to meet men.
► How to move from dating to relationship stage.
► How to create a feeling of togetherness.
► When to bring sex into the dating process.
Gay Compatibility Formula
Get the formula for a long lasting marriage, committed relationship and monogamy.
26 Video Sessions + 4 Workbooks + 1 Excel Spreadsheet
Discover a smarter way of choosing your lovers so that your relationships last forever.
Most gay men spend 10-15 years with incompatible men or choose partners who are NOT READY for relationships. This cycle of bad relationships can break anyone's motivation to pursue relationships.
Unlike heterosexual men and women, gay men come with different levels of experience of being gay. A closeted gay men is not compatible with an openly gay man. Recently out gay man is not ready for a committed relationship. Also, gay men with limited sexual experiences are not compatible with those who have experimented and are ready to settle down.
Gay Compatibility Formula is an advanced training that teaches you how to look for men who are compatible with your psychology and life’s journey so that you ensure long term commitment and marriage. Understanding gay compatibility is the fastest way to make a marriage work and to avoid frustrations in gay relationships.
Here is what you get inside the training:
► How to identify YOUR COMPATIBLE LOVER.
► How to create a deep connection with another man.
► How to make your marriage last through conflicts.
► How to meet relationship-ready men.
► How to avoid years of fights and breakups.
► How to get married to the right person.
► You get a Relationship Matrix that measures compatibility instantly.
► You get a list of 18 questions to bring into conversations about compatibility.
► You get examples of how compatibility works in real life.