Every step of personal transformation is preceded with clarity, a moment of truth, a realization of a new possibility.  With relationships, this starts with the clear description of the husband you want to marry and the marriage you want to experience.  Clarity also helps you understand the current challenges and how to overcome them.  Clarity is the fastest way to make your relationship dreams possible.

Every relationship journey will show up with places of complexity that require tools of understanding.  Instead of walking away from places of difficulty, we seek to understand their value and go forward anyway.  This is the process of mastery and transformation.

Success in relationships requires the ability to understand basic human complexity that always shows up during dating and especially inside relationships.  Instead of walking away from good relationships, gay men need to deepen their understanding of psychology and practice new ways of communicating, relating and problem solving.