Stories From Clients:
Paul Angelo is a gay matchmaker and a relationship coach working exclusively with gay professional men over 40 who are ready for a serious relationship and marriage. By 2017, Paul has spent over 8,000 hours coaching and guiding his clients in the areas of gay dating and relationships.
With over 60 video testimonials and over 550 publicly available videos about gay psychology, Paul is the world’s leader in gay education about the psychology of romantic relationships and gay sexuality. Paul is the creator of multiple video-based coaching programs about gay compatibility, gay psychology and gay sexuality: Gay Compatibility Formula, Sex On Rocks, Gay Life Mastery.
Paul’s contribution to the world of gay psychology includes the development of a brand new gay philosophy and a brand-new framework for gay sexuality that simplifies dating, creates commitment and monogamy.
Paul is the creator of a popular and high-end matchmaking program called: Big Gay Family that changes the way gay men meet and creates relationships that start with emotional connection instead of sexual. All men are welcome to join Big Gay Family and experience a paradigm shift in personal friendships and relationships.
Virtually all gay men today come with socially conditioned, fear-based beliefs about gay sexuality, dating and relationships. The first step in working with Paul is to undo the dysfunctional beliefs and install a process of dating that reduces mistakes, frustrations and sabotage. Paul is the first gay coach who combined coaching with matchmaking to make learning fun and adventurous for his clients. Ever since 2010, Paul continues to lead the gay coaching industry with innovative solutions to the challenges of gay life.
Paul’s new book “The Gay Genius And The Birth Of Gay Supremacy”, expected to be published in Spring 2017, is the outcome of 7 years of study and research of gay philosophy, psychology and sociology. Paul breaks with the heterosexual conventions and introduces innovative solutions in all areas of gay life: dating, sexuality and marriage. Paul predicts that the next 5 years will bring about a Gay Renaissance in ideology equivalent to the Renaissance in art, architecture and New Thought of the 14th century Italy. Paul expects that the future for gay men will bring progress, love and happiness much greater than what we have seen in the heterosexual world spanning the past 10,000 years of modern history.
5 Distinctions For Success In Gay Relationships
#1: Gay men have a significant advantage in life because there is no separation of gender in gay relationships. This means that the challenges in gay relationships come mostly from the influences of heterosexual norms into gay life.
#2: Singularity is a moment in a gay man’s life when his interactions with other gay men are no longer negatively affected by shame and copying from heterosexual norms. Heterosexual norms are rejected and new skills for interaction with gay men produce unprecedented depth in friendships and relationships.
#3: Attraction expands in proportion to healthy emotional interactions with other gay men. Attraction is not static. Any gay man can build a strong reciprocal attraction with other gay men, regardless of body type, age and looks. Frozen attraction, which is difficult to reciprocate inside a healthy relationship comes from sexual shame and lack of consistent and emotional sharing with other gay men.
#4: Gay Sexuality that produces commitment and monogamy relies on the completion of the Sexual Developmental Stage and the verbal expression of sexual impulses. Every gay man can experience full sexual satisfaction when he achieves completion of his sexual development. Suppressed sexual impulses often lead gay men into dysfunctional relationships. When sexual impulses are acknowledged and openly shared with other gay men, sexuality becomes a vehicle for intimacy and connectivity instead of a tool for power-play and compensation for weak masculinity.
#5: Gay men offer a possibility to solve complex problems that heterosexuals cannot solve. Nature has produced gay men through evolutionary pathways that enable humanity to reach the new potential. All gay men are lucky to be part of a historical shift in human development unprecedented since the beginning of mankind.
Meet Paul’s Clients
For a gay man to hire a coach, it takes courage and humility. Masculinity does not surrender to help easily. Yet this is the beginning of any gay man’s transformation. Healthy masculinity acknowledges pain and reaches for help. Life is too short to wage every battle alone. Those who surrender to coaching and growth achieve their dreams within just a few years of hard work and persistence.
Paul’s clients are gay professionals, gay executives & gay entrepreneurs who are accustomed to problem solving strategies in business and who rely on outside experts for solutions. They understand that the same applies to personal life. With coaching and matchmaking they are able to gain competence and practice and create relationships much faster and with fewer mistakes.
Paul has worked with Harvard graduates, NASA employees, executives from Fortune 50 companies, actors, realtors, psychologists and healthcare professionals. Every year, Paul dedicates 100 hours of pro bono (free) coaching to help those gay men who cannot afford his services.